How Not To Write about Debt . Days 247 and 248

That didn’t take me long to screw up and miss a day with writing here. It’s been  what – a week, if that since I started to count the days on how to get out of debt in 1000 days.  I have an excuse though:

I took a day off

One reason I avoid the day job like the plague is the lack of freedom. Frankly, I don’t know how you folks that do the 9-5 do it. I know it’s all time management and when I go the grocery store on the odd Saturday I understand  how you guys get things done. All of you  are at the grocery store with me, or so it seems. Now, I’m not dissing you 9-5′ers, it’s just that I’ve never had the pleasure of that experience. I’ve been gainfully employed a few times in this lifetime, so it’s not the work that’s foreign to me, but rather the schedule. I’m used  to working nights or afternoons but never days. One of the benefits of working for yourself  is you can take a day off and go ride your motorbike, which is what I did.  And  while I was thinking and riding  I realized motorcycling is one of the more cost efficient hobbies to have if you do it right.

If you buy a new motorcycle and are making payments because you had to have the new bike this doesn’t apply to you but for most others, a used motorcycle is pretty good value. I bought my 88 Suzuki in 1992 for $2500. I have had it for 18 years this summer.  I could sell it tomorrow for $1000, maybe a bit more but I could realize  one grand for it I think fairly easily. That means it has cost me less than $100 a year to own the motorcycle. I have had no real big dollar repairs to it , a new tune up in the spring and I just replaced seven year old tires on for all of $300. Including gas, insurance , depreciation and the whole nine yards, that’s not too bad a cost for a whole lot of fun over the years.

Now, like any hobby you can choose  to spend a lot, or  do it on the cheap –  but I was out last night with friends and save for $10 for  some cheap chinese food and maybe ten dollars in gas I sure had a whole lot of fun.   I didn’t need to go out and spend $100 on some tourist trap or expensive hotel . I went out, had some good food with good friends and had a wonderfully warm motorbike ride home in the middle of  july when the air is so thick that even at night you could taste it. All this to say,  over the years I’ve had a lot  of fun on that bike, and the expense was ten bucks of gas and a large black coffee at the coffee sh0p.

Today’s takeaway: Good fun does not have to be expensive. And it’s nice to be outside. When you’re in debt or have any worries at all about money I find it’s easy to let the worries consume you and your day. But life is just fine without money. My friends and family like me for me, not my net worth. Yes, one should strive for debt freedom and live frugal, make more – spend less and so on. But that doesn’t mean you can’t go for a walk and spring for an ice cream cone on a hot summer night. It’s all about balance. Save on the stuff that’s not important so you can spend on what is important. That’s really all there is to personal finance.

End of the week update

About a week ago I  started my 100 hubpage challenge as it’s an easy way to write for the web. You don’t have to set up individual websites and  I think it’s a great way to stretch your mind and learn about new topics. There’s also a chance you’ll make a buck or  two along the way too.

I have written 22 hubs so far on a variety of topics, so I’m  about  a quarter of the way through. What I’ve found is it takes a week or two or even  more to get any search traffic to them and I haven’t seen any income from them yet either, and that’s OK. This all takes time to happen I don’t expect writing 20 articles for a website and retire. But it’s a good way to test some stuff and get some data back so you can figure out what topics are more popular than others. So I’m right about on schedule for getting the 100 up in a month. By the time I get the last article written, I should see some hits and traffic to the older 22 articles I did get done this week.  At least, that’s the plan. But even if I fail specatacular at this it will be  a lesson learned.

Until next time..

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Writer’s Block And Living Frugally. Day 246

Yesterday I was doing so well with working on my hubpages plan of getting 100 articles written because from the tests I’m doing, every article I write earns me a dollar a month in income, if not more.  Not for this site yet but it could over time and one reason for my 100 hubpage challenge was to see if I could get a few more readers and maybe dollars  here too

But today, I should  have just gone for a walk  or something but the distractions were many, check my email, sweep the floor, any jobs I could get? I’ve spent pretty much the entire day with this, and it’s a vicous circle or deep deep rabbit hole. This getting out of debt isn’t just about the money. The money is just one factor. It’s about producing work each day that your’re proud of and finding an equal balance of work/rest/play the whole works

Oddly enough once I get writing, I absolutely love it. I  get to tell stories all day basically and get paid, or try to convert words I type into conversions or clicks or sales or something. Anyway, work wise – today was not the productive day I had hoped.  Every time, I would look at the clock, look at the empty page and go, damn. And then I would do it again. It’s only 7pm here so there’s still hope for me to get a bit more written tonight so we’ll see. But I so want to get  into rhythm as the more I write, the more chances I have to squeek out a living which is the ultimate goal, right?

Speaking of earning money, we’ve all dreamed the dream about how we would  win the lottery we’d buy cars and houses and the like,  but what if it went the other way?  What if your income dropped by half? Or stopped?  What would you do?

I know. and it’s kindof scary right? I have been looking for ways to live cheaper and with less stuff. In a lot of ways, life was more fun when you moved, and all you had to do was load  up the passenger seat with your clothes and maybe computer in simpler times. I wonder  how little  stuff  we need? I’m paying $150 a month to store stuff I have not touched in years and will have done without  for almost a year.

What if you sold it all and just started over again?

What if you calculated your monthly expenses and then lived on half  that?  Yes, it might mean moving to a less fancy apartment  or house, or even getting or being a roomate for a while to pay bills but it sure would be a good way to get out of debt in a hurry.  Think about it: No  debt, no stuff to worry about. If you chose, you could work part time or freelance  or whatever  you wanted to do. You could travel more and worry less.

It’s a thought I’ve had, and it’s a lot of work to being completely free of stuff with the hassle of selling it for less than you paid and the weird emotional attachment we have to the stuff that we’d have to fight. But it sure would be a good lesson wouldn’t it? it would be hard to see my toys go, but it would be more hard to sit across the desk at the bank and tell them you can’t pay them because you bought some records or other stuff a few years back and you’re still paying for it. At 18 percent interest.

You can always buy cooler better stuff, later. But I bet after being without it for so long you wouldn’t miss it.

Food for thought for a non productive day.

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The Power of the Coupon. Day 245

Welcome to Day 245.  I  had to stop and sit down when I realized I have been fighting this debt freedom fight for 245 days.  In just another 100 days I will have had this site for  one  year and  although some progress has been  made I  want  to make more and I think that recording the days might help me pull up my socks a bit.

The good news is I still have 755 days to redeem myself and get out of  debt

I have come a long way and I have a lot more focus on the debt freedom plan, or should I say I still have focus. Who knows if I work hard enough I can be out of debt in 1000 days and I’ve got 3/4 of the time to do that.

So now that we have this wee bit of administrivia out of the way, I want to talk a bit about coupons. I’m a coupon convert. Or I’m becoming one anyway. slowly.

Folks, this is FREE money.. You’re going to spend the money anyway and you need the toothpaste or shampoo anyway, so you might as well save some money. The manufacturers are paying you to buy the stuff you need  it makes sense to try  it and  see. And even if you don’t want to use coupons at very least get to know what stuff costs.  After a while you get to realize that raspberries at 5 bucks for about a dozen is not that great of a deal, but three boxes for four bucks might be a better  bargain.

Managing your  debt all comes down to education, and what the market is. Let’s use real estate for an example. If you just move to town, and have no idea on the better neighbourhoods are, you might think that the price alone on a house would be the best bargain. But if you wake up to drunks on your driveway and your car broken into every morning than your cheap house might not be such  a deal. The same goes with anything you are in the market to buy, steaks or houses it doesn’t matter.

Saving money  on anything whether it’s groceries or gardening equipment becomes a lot easier if you are a smart shopper and spend the time to research. And that’s all using coupons really is – is a bit of research. You can do as little as check the weekly flyers to just get a feel on the groceries and the pricing or you can go all out and clip coupons and organize and alphabetize.Whatever works, is fine. As long as you save money and you’re comfortable with your savings.

It’s no sense being debt free if you’re miserable  with the life to get there. It’s easy to read and preach about how if you live poorly now you will rejoice later when you’re debt free. But if you would rather put a gun to your head than clip just one coupon than don’t clip coupons. But find what works for you, and do it.  If you find that you can live on a dollar a day that’s great do it. But if you find that $100 a day is more your style but it will take you a bit longer to get out of debt, that’s OK too.

Personal  finance is personal and everybody’s story and comfort level with frugality is different, but there’s no harm in at least trying some frugal stuff to see if you like it. I don’t know that I will become a coupon expert but I do know that if I need something I will look for it on sale before I buy it or see if there’s a coupon readily available.

And if you shop online searching for coupons online should be your default strategy. How much effort does it take to search for a product  in a search engine and  type the word coupons and see what comes up.  You are just spending money needlessly  if you don’t do the research to find the best deal you can.

And that’s all the use of coupons is: It allows you to get the best deal on the best stuff available today. For less.

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Just Another Manic Monday

Two Hours.

That’s what it took me today to bang out  five articles today for my 100 hubpage challenge. At this rate I will have 100 articles written about three weeks from now and  the first ones I have written today should start to see some traction as they have time to age.  This is going to work, I can feel it.  That graph I shared yesterday is for an oddball product too and it’s far from popular and the topics I have chose should be relatively easy to  get some people’s eyeballs to.

And this is all it is. I’ve been studying and testing and trying this and trying that and spinning my wheels but all I really need to do : apply myself to this little  project.  You don’t track the money, you track the effort and the money will come. Ater a while you have  some data from your efforts. Thats’ what I love about  this online stuff is that in a lot of ways, it’s just math and time. Throw some mud at the wall and figure out what sticks  and do more of that. Along the way you find more stuff that makes climbing the mountain easier and easier over time.

And that’s why I don’t want to give up on this and the debt freedom challenge. Because I know I can do this.  Yes, there’s going to be disappointments along the way, but if  I keep on keepin on… I’ll win  :)

I used to think that the one with  the most toys wins, but that’s no winner. That’s  a guy with a lot of maintenance and storage costs. My new motto is the one  with the most experiences wins and this debt reduction plan of mine is just one of many stories to tell.

I’m tempted to start counting the days as I’m finding that if I write stuff down and make a list it gets done.  If it’s in my head? ya, no so much. I’ll have to research when I started this site and figure out where I am . I know there’s time  left  - about two more years to apply myself and make more money to pay off the debt.

All in all a pretty good day. I’ve yet to add it up but I think through various sources today might have been a $50 or so day, which is a welcome change from the .32 cent  day the other day . It’s still early days and the earnings can change that much from day  to day. But the trick is to count the work and the average on the work  over time. But I have to tell ya, it is disappointing on those .32 cent days. But if I can average $1 per month for each published article somewhere, then I only have 2,995 articles  to  go to earn $100 a day. Sound Crazy?  Maybe, but  that’s half the fun. :)

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How To Make Money Online Slowly

I want to show you something:

The graph you see is for one article  I wrote for hubpages back in the beginning of  March, 2010. It took me all of 20 minutes to write – probably less than what it takes me to write this up. I wrote the post, and 25 or so others and forgot about them for the most part.

But do you see what I see? Over time, content you write that offers real value on hubpages, or any other site seems to age over time and attract more visits. This online thing is really just one part time, and one part effort. The more time and effor t and time you can commit, the better the results.

These particular numbers are for a seasonal product – electronics – that will be replaced by something bigger better and brighter next year for certain, so this chart wont’ always look like this but had I written more timeless content, like how to get of of debt, or how to skin a cat, or how to to clean your keyboard, or even (wait for it) kitty litter boxes, over time you gain some trust and  the web realizes that heck maybe this guy’s stuff isn’t so bad even if he does write about pink kitty litter boxes

Now as you can see, even at it’s highest point I’m only seeing 5 visits a day. It’s a popular product and there’s a fair bit of competition. So?  What if I wrote about 100 similar products? or topics? It could be cats or  home theater accessories or how to live your life in a zen like state, the topics don’t really matter. They need to serve a need, solve a problem, or maybe just maybe convince the reader that they can’t  live another day  without  a pair of woman’s boots or books on travleing to china, and which I’ve sold and made money that can go towards my debt, thank you very much whomever you are who made those purchases. I hope the boots fit and the trip to china is wonderful. If you need anything else  I’m here to help you find the best deal.

Another example: This may change and your mileage may vary – but if you write about stuff or terms that nobody thought about or that there’s only a little demand..you get ranked  in the SERPs pretty quickly, whether your content is  on your site or on a site like hubpages doesn’t really matter. Start out writing about the odd terms or long tail terms if you will and you will get some visits. Not a lot at first, but if you keep at it and have the patience to create a site that is an authority in your topics over time you start to rank number 1 for some results that you wouldn’t think possible. In fact, you can  rank number 1, number 2, and number 6 out of ten possible slots on the front page of Google. That means out of 2.5 millon possible results I rank 3 out of the ten spots.  Do I see a lot of visits for debt snowstorm? No. But maybe I will, or maybe there will be something in the news, where debt snowstorms are all the rage.  It doesn’t matter, I would rather be able to provide value to the one reader  a month, if that that searches for debt snowstorm.

Where am I going with all this? It means I’m going to do a lot more testing, writing and simply working. I had thought about giving up on this site and chalk it up to another failure but then I though, shucks, one more failure. Who cares if I only seventeen visits and nobody ever reads this? This site is for the two or so readers I really do have that check here daily to see what I’m up to. I’m not much for faceboo ,but somehow I can prattle on here and find it fun. There’s no deadline and spellcheck. And even though I only have 2 readers here, I have value to them. This site already is a success in their eyes. Yes, it would be nice to have millions of readers but maybe over time it will be, and that’s why I’m still here: You just never know what lies around the next corner.

This is a blog about my road to debt freedom. Earlier this week, I was upside down in a ditch on that road, in the debt snowstorm (see how I managed to squeek that term in one more time?) but I’m still here.

When I started this site, I had planned to get out of debt in 1000 days. I’m about 200 or so into this and that means that there’s still lots of time for me to get out of debt by 2012. Heck, even halfway would be a success. So I’m going to keep on keeping on and report to you how I’m doing, as that’s half the fun too.

There’s days I only make .32 (yesterday) but I’ve also been lucky and have had $100 days too. It all adds up and it all can go to the debt freedom . But, I really need to step up the content, both on this site and on others. According to the graph above I have had some luck with hubpages, so I’m going to start there. Hubpages makes it easy for you to get some content up on the web easily and it’s s a great way to write some stuff and see what works. I wouldn’t be the kitty litter king without writing about it so I’m going to keep on keeping on with hubpages

100 hubpages challenge.

I love tests and challenges, and this is going to be one of them.

I’m going to bang out 100 of these and see if any stick. It only takes me a half an hour to write one so I should be able to bang out 100 in month, maybe even less and I’m going to share my results here with you. If I could make $100/month with the hundred pages then we have something to work with: I would be averaging a dollar a month for 100. So I write 1000. Now I’m up to 1000 dollars a month. And as you have seen over time they tend to gain some traction and could earn even more if the content is timeless. (That one I wrote on electronics – it will get no traffic a year from now).

In a way, it’s really just math. Do the work and get it out there. But you can’t count hours or time spent. You have to believe in tomorrow and that if you keep at it, things will get better (just like the road to debt freedom). There’s only one way – up.

This web content or writing for the web really is just a numbers game and a bit of luck. If you toss enough stuff at the wall some will stick: Some math – 1000 articles that average $1/month. Some will make zero, but some will make much much more that’s just the way it is. So I make $12 a year for every 20 minutes or so that I work or write. It doesn’t matter whether you have one website or six hundred – it’s the content. So to make three thousand dollars a month, I need to have 3000 articles out there making me money every day. And that’s the beauty of entrepreneurship. What you do today, could pay off forever if you plan and build a system.

Let’s do some more math: I want to make ten thousand dollars a month. I need ten thousand articles or pages out there. Nobody says I have to write them all myself. I just have to publish the content. So we’ve determined that each article makes a dollar a month on average or $12 a year. So even if I pay $5 an article to somebody else, I still clear $7 the first year, and then the year after and after that, I get the full 12 again. (We’re assuming it’s quality content that helps somebody – Where to Buy White Shirts for an example) It is possible over time I could double my money by honing in on the profitable stuff too and dropping the non profitable stuff. Some pages are going to average ten dollars and some nothing. That’s just the way it is.

But to start you have to write, write, write (and then later, farm it out). I’ve made $300 in June on a site that I wrote 100 articles for so I’m not just pulling numbers out of my hat either. The $1/month per article is a very safe bet I would think.

But there’s only one way to find out. Start writing. LOTS.

Stay tuned, this is going to be fun.

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How To Cancel Your Bank of Montreal MasterCard

For whatever reason you may have you might want to cancel your MasterCard from the Bank of Montreal.

Maybe your purse or wallet is just too big, and one less card is one less card in your pocket so that you don’t spend money on your credit cards in the first place, or maybe you’ve got a beef or complaint with the Bank of Montreal and there’s no way you are going to give them any more of your hard earned money so that they can charge your interest.

The first step you have to make when you want to cancel your Bank of Montreal Mastercard is to be sure  you are not carrying a balance of any kind whatsoever on your credit card to begin with. This might sound silly but you have to pay off your Bank of Montreal Credit Card before you can cancel it.

Imagine if that were not the case? You could call up the Bank of Montreal Mastercard people and just cancel, even if you carry a balance? It would be great but you’re dreaming. If you have a balance of any kind, the Bank of Montreal needs to – and deserves to be paid off in full before you can cancel your mastercard from the Bank of Montreal, or any other bank in Canada for that matter. You were silly enough (well, maybe silly isn’t the right word. I don’t  know your finance so I should not make any assumptions) to rack up the charges on your Bank of Montreal Mastercard, so now it’s time to pay up and pay off in full if you want to cancel the card.

First, find your last statement  and be sure the balance on your MasterCard is actually zero. Don’t forget that there might be just one more interest charge even though you have already paid off your card in full. (or so you thought). What might have happened is you paid off the card, but due the grace period BMO can , and will charge you for that little last bit of interest.

The Bank of Montreal, or any other bank is not trying to soak you by doing this, either. You agreed to their cardholder agreement and probably  in all that small print is one little sentence or two about grace periods and  minimum payments.  Just be warned: just because you think you’re paid off, it might be good to call the bank of montreal and be sure to check that your records match and they feel the same way too.

But once you have them on the phone you’re halfway there. Tell them you want to cancel your Bank of Montreal Mastercard. Be prepared for some resistance to this too. You have been a very good customer over the years, and they don’t want to lose you and spend  a lot of money on billboards and buses and tv ads to get new customers just like you. They probably just won’t go – Oh, OK. The bank will ask you why,  and while it’s probably none of their business, tell them the  truth whatever that may be.  They might try to get you on another card or sweeten  the deal in some way and that’s up to  you whether you switch your credit card from Bank of Montreal rather  than canceling outright. But don’t let the Bank of Montreal talk you in to anything you don’t want either. Nobody cares about your money as much as you do, so if you wish to cancel  your Bank of Montreal Mastercard  all you have to do is call them up or check in at one of many of the  Bank of Montreal locations, or even contact them at the Bank of Montreal website and the Bank of Montreal will be able to help you when you want to cancel your Bank of Montreal Mastercard

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The Benefits of a Debt Snowstorm

When you think of a snowstorm whether a debt snowstorm or some  other kind of snowstorm you usually think of one big thing or a dump.

And that’s what I plan to do with my credit card debt. I hope that one day soon I can dump by credit card company and bank like a hot potato, and do it all at once rather than  drip by drip, bit by bit… let me explain:

Debt Snowstorm Benefits

I guess at first, I need to explain what the heck exactly a debt snowstorm is. Well as we’re all aware with the Dave Ramsey way, you’re encouraged to start small, pay off the small debt first then apply the big one honkin’ payment to it in one fell swoop.  That’s right, just keep keepin’ on  with the minimums and do your best  to eliminate, or even completely delete your debt or credit card usage. I know some might argue that that a debt snowstorm might make no sense whatsoever and for them, maybe they are right.

But here’s the thing: ( I say that a lot on here, I have noticed).  Personal Debt is, well – personal. I’m OK with the snowball approach because in the meantime it allows me to save up a big honkin’ safety net. And call me crazy, but the older  I get the more sense fiscal security is starting to mean to me. I look forward to a restful night and believe it or not, the 20 minutes it took me to write about this is one small step in the right direction. If for no other reason, it gets me thinking about my debt.   And if it’s in your mind, you’ll do it, or at very least pay attention to your  debt.

Back to the debt snowball: Why this works for me is I can save  and save and then when my savings get to a comfortable level for me that has a surplus of money  (extra money.ha!) then I make one big payment and the debt is gone.

Let’s pretend I have a credit card with  a $5000 balance. I keep making the minimum payments over time, about $100 I’m guessing. In the meantime,  I manage to make an extra $400 a month, it doesn’t matter how really: sell coffee at night, work at McD’s but at the end of every month I can see extra income, or a surplus in my account. So in a years time I have  $4800 saved. Close, but no cigar.  I wait another 3 months and save another 1200 and then and only then do I pay off the debt.

Math wise, and for those that need to pay off their debts fast with the least bit of interest paid, this makes no sense.

But it works for me, because over the course of the year or so, I know two things are happening here: one is I’m saving and my savings is growing. This allows me the other item  I personally need: peace of mind. Yes,  over the course of the year I’m paying too much interest, but every month when my bank account grows in size, I get to sleep at night just a little bit better knowing that should I need to alter my plan due to a life emergency, I have some dough saved.  Maybe I get a once in lifetime  chance to travel the world for just $1000 for 3 months, or some ridiculous bargain. I would have the money to do so.

I know travelling the world for  $1000 is not a need by any stretch but it  would be one heck of  an opportunity. And the cost would be that I would be  $1000 further away from debt freedom, but  I got to go on a trip of a lifetime. I’d remember the trip forever, good or bad. I wouldn’t remember the extra 3 months of interest, or  payments.

So my preference is for a debt snowstorm  payment plan: make minimum’s and save, save, save. Then when your savings account is overflowing with cash that is well above what you owe then with  one payment you can dump your credit card. And because you still have a balance in your savings,  you have a good start on the next debt snowstorm, if you need it.

One payment and  you’re done. That’s the  debt snowstorm .

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Blogging Results

This is my 145th post.

Let’s assume  an average of 400 words per, and that’s 58,000 words written here on this website about getting out of debt.

Want to know how many people read all this awesomeness yesterday? just 17

That’s not exactly a positive ROI, is it? That’s a whole lot of time spent for very few people and I tempted to give up on this site as there’s been days when  I write about haircuts or my dentist appointment or some other mundane sillyness. I could argue that it’s only been six months, that all this takes time, I’ve chosen the  most competitive niche to compete in and so on and so forth.

Now it is true that  when i started this site I never imagined that getting out of debt or helping others get out of debt  would be so profitable,  but it is. And see those ads over there to the right? I’m bound by the terms and conditions of the Google Ads program to share what I make per click but let me tell you it’s a lot more than what I’d get if I were selling kitty litter boxes (actually pets is another tricky niche to compete)

So here’s what I’ve been thinking:  I don’t do a very good job at the daily updates, because day to day, the debt doesn’t change much if at all. In fact, it probably goes up due to interest (sigh). and because  there’s nothing to tell daily, I have decided to back off a bit in the posting of updates, unless there’s some news or something I want to share.

One of my focuses these past few months have been to get a few other websites up and running, and even thought it’s only July, the back to school and holiday season is around the corner and the more traffic I can get  for some sites I have that are starting to show some promise now in July, I will have a much better chance of making more money and getting out of debt sooner.

But this doesn’t mean I’ve given up on this site, I just wanted to share that the update schedule will be when there’s either news, or  I’ve found something to write about that will bring more traffic.

And speaking of traffic, others sites will tell you different but I have found, and proven that you can build it, but they won’t come. (see above, about 145 posts and 17 visitors).  But if you build it a bit, and then promote it  some, or even a lot, not only will they come, but they will come back and they will click ads, buy my ebook for only $97, or  whatever other way I find to squeeze money out of.

I also want to use this site as a test to try some promotional techniques. It’s really simple this website stuff. Make ONE page, and then promote it until you get some traffic  to it. It didn’t take me a whole heck of a lot of effort to be the kitty litter king. All I had to do was write the article. And as there was ZERO competition, a few weeks later I start to sees some traffic for this word. Not a lot, but as I’ve proven people search for kitty litter boxes and end up here.

But what I’d like to do is have them  end up here for the terms get out of debt, and debt reduction, or find a job or get a job to get out of debt. You get the idea something that sees more than 17 a day and maybe a few clicks or dollars made along the way.

So. All this to say: see you around. The new schedule is that there’s no schedule. I think by doing this, I can spend more time promoting better content that will actually have value and not just  my news on my latest haircuts.

Speaking of which: I’m still tracking my grocery spending. It’s only halfway through, but it’ll be interestting to see the month end numbers. I’m WAY down on latte spending this way. Because if I buy a latte, I have to write it down and report  it. :)

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Adventures in Grocery Shopping

I used a coupon today!

Yes, I’ll wait while you recover. It’s true I did and it didn’t hurt one bit. I popped over to the grocery store to find  something that looked like a dinner, and while there I thought, what the heck – let’s spring for some perrier and  as it’s well, July and a cold drink on a warm night would be a nice way to spend  part of my evening.

And then I saw it: just sticking out from the shelf with right in front of the perrier, promoting the new grapefruit flavor which I didn’t see  but when I read the coupon particulars..

(we have to  interrupt this post to acknowledge that not only did I use a coupon, I read the small print)

Right, where was I? OH YAH. Coupons, and I used one.  Out in public and everything. So, back to the story:

I yanked that coupon off the display, went to the checkout and redeemed it! I saved 50 cents today, which really isn’t much of savings for  a few reasons:

1. I could of just bought the no name mineral water. I’m just using it as mix for my drinks.

2. My local grocery isn’t the cheapest, most days. It’s catered to the condo living and tourist market being right on the water, things  can be a wee bit pricier  for a few things.

But still, it’s  50 cents saved and  an excuse for an article for this site, so I’m up 50 cents today and we’ll take it.

I’ve almost bailed on this blog so many times  now as some  days it takes time away from  a few projects that actually do make some money or at very least showing some promise, but I have given up on more than I care to share, I need this site , and the author to be a long time success, so onwards I plug on and share my couponing victories, as it’s not the coupons that  matter it’s the change in mindset from spender to saver that’s te real victory. A year ago I wouldn’t  have used a coupon if you’d put a gun to my head. But now that I’ve realized that the little wins add up just as much as the bigger wins I’m happy to take a small amount of time to save money when I can on things that are not important  so I can spend it  on what is important.

So we plug on with the debt repayment and the blog that tells the story in hopes that some day, somebody other than friends will read this.

In the meantime, I’m celebrating the small victories, one coupon at a time.

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Money and Relationships

I read a personal finance blog today that actually sees readers – unlike this one – and todays’ topic  there was a letter from their reader where the reader asked about  going forward with a relationship because this couple didn’t line up on the money scale as a perfect fit.  The writer was frugal, but  the partner wasn’t and was comfortable with debt, and so on….and the advice was to go slow with this relationship because two people’s financial goals were’t the same.

Here’s the thing: I disagree. I don’t think just because you’re frugal, and your partner is not that you should go slow. I’d be less worried about my wallet and more inclined to worry about  whether you were  compatible in other ways and there’s a myriad of compatibility issues, not just money that make a difference.   Money is just Money. It comes, it goes…sometimes you’re well off, and  sometimes you’re not. I’ve seen both sides of the coin more times than I care to share here.

An exercise:

Think of your best money times. Got it? Now think of your worst money times.Got that too? It’s quite possible that your worse money times were the best times of your life in every other way. I know that’s been the case for me more than once.

Now where were you in both times? Did you have a partner/wife/husband/family that loved you at both of these times? There’s the value. OK maybe she spends too much time at the mall, and he makes a grocery run a four hour event with all the coupons but all that can be  compromised, and you might find that over time both your values towards money tend to line up as you work together in your relationship.

I don’t want this to turn into a Dr.Phil column, but don’t  let money ruin your relationships. If you have everything else working you should be celebrating as there are lots of people that would spend whatever it takes to have what you’re thinking of throwing  away. Over what? Money? Do not let money ruin a relationship.  Money is just Money.

A suggestion

What you could do is this: learn from each other.. maybe the spending person gets cut back a bit, and maybe our  frugal friend could learn to lighten up and  just go pay to see the movies without  a need of a coupon.  But if you work together, and communicate you could be complete  polar opposites and still have a very happy relationship for years.  As long as your worldviews are the same for the long term…kids, no kids, flash car, or crappy rustbucket, the money stuff can be worked out.

But if you’ve got each other and everything is great otherwise, don’t let go.

Full steam ahead. Don’t let your wallet  guide your heart, as the cost is too high.

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